The Wounded Human (Male-Female)
It can be hard to heal wounded male or
female aspects in us in our relationships considering the long history
of woundedness on this planet. When we first enter a
relationship, the pain is already there waiting for us to find it and
begin fighting with the other; the same, age-old fights that never
work. The following message I needed to share is
channeled by Mary
Magdalene (who was in fact married to Jesus, and is a great if not
equal teacher). I hope you love it as much as I do!
The Wounded Human – Mary Magdalene
Pamela Kribbe channels Mary Magdalene
Dear friends of light, I am Mary Magdalene.
I know you – I know your path – I know who you are. We are deeply
connected with one another; our links go back in time through many
centuries. We are linked together as one big family, and the connection
is not of the mind, but through the heart. It runs not only through the
personal knowing of one another, it is deeper than that. There is a
group energy that connects us – we are a family.
You are living in a significant time. You have already been here on
Earth many times and you have gone through a lot in all those human
lives. What is now accelerating the development of your heart is that,
in this time, the change of consciousness is getting more grounded and
becoming more alive in the hearts and souls of people. In your heart
lives a hope, a desire, and also the reminder of a promise that you
have carried with you through many lives.
You want to bring a heart-borne consciousness to Earth and through
that process you also begin to flower. You want to connect with your
soul while you are on Earth. You want to let your light radiate so that
you become a human being free of fear, one who dares to stand fully in
your own light. In this way, you also illuminate the world. Your light
has a hopeful, inspiring effect on others.
But your first and biggest step is to acknowledge the light within
yourself and to connect with your soul. It is a step that requires all
your attention and devotion. You, who are linked with me, are all
encouraged to travel this path, to connect with your soul, your divine
origin, and from there to live an inspired life. This is becoming ever
more possible on Earth. The vibration of the atmosphere on Earth is
changing.
Although there still prevails a lot of disorder and chaos, and there
still is a lot of emotional pain and confusion in many people, the
seeds of the new have already been sown – and you are those seeds. You
have already chosen: you want to move along with the voice of your
heart, the voice of your soul. But before you can do this, before you
can experience the joy of true freedom, you often meet up with old
blockages: heavy parts of yourself that temporarily block the view of
your own light.
When you live in a woman’s body, it is likely that your blockages
have to do with the collective female pain; with what the female psyche
has experienced in the many centuries before, and is still experiencing
today. There are still places on Earth where the female energy is not
respected and is even suppressed with violence. When you incarnate as a
woman, you step with one foot into that history, into that collective
energy of the past, into which you, too, participated during several
lifetimes. It is intended that you again experience that energy so you
can heal it by first healing yourself from within.
Fundamentally, it comes down to the fact that women have taken into
themselves a deep feeling of unworthiness from the past. They have been
consistently – and for a long time – been looked upon as second-class
citizens, as people of a lesser value. They could not match the
masculine way of thinking, so they were considered the weaker sex.
However, their true talents lie in the field of intuition and the
ability to connect, the ability to perceive deeply into the core of
things, but their empathy was dismissed and reduced to the idea that
women were emotional, impulsive, and unable to consider things
rationally.
Both in religious teachings, as well as in many philosophical views,
women were degraded. And that happened, of course, not only with words,
but also with deeds: there has been so much sexual violence that has
affected women deeply. When you have been damaged in your sexuality –
humiliated, degraded – it leaves deep traces in your mind and in your
emotional body.
Thus you can speak of a collective wound in the female
consciousness, a sense of powerlessness, and as I said, a sense of
inferiority or unworthiness. I want to encourage you to look at this
wound as compassionately as possible. There is grief in you, as in all
women, and there is also anger and resentment. Only with a
compassionate look at yourself can you penetrate to the core of the
pain, and at the same time to the heart of your power.
Whether you are male or female, I want to encourage you to turn your
attention to the area of your abdomen, and your breathing can help you
do that. By breathing consciously into your abdomen, you automatically
turn your attention downward. Fill your abdomen with a gentle
consciousness. Imagine that your abdomen is filled with your light.
Gentle attention is nothing but light, openness, welcoming, saying
“yes”.
Determine whether in the area of your abdomen lives a wounded woman,
and I encourage both men and women to do this. You might see an image
of a wounded woman, although there might appear a different image that
indirectly points to the same thing. For example, in many people, both
men and women, there is a lack of confidence about their own female
energy: your sensitivity, your intuition, your ability to sense and
feel. You often dismiss that ability; you adapt to the more male way of
thinking that is around you, and so you cut yourself off from a deeper
source of wisdom.
I ask you to now reach out a hand to the wounded woman within you,
although she can also appear as a girl. Imagine that you call her
toward you and you look into her eyes. And because you fully embrace
who she is, she feels seen and already partly healed. Breathe light
into her; know that she carries burdens which are much older than this
life. You have had past lives; you are part of humanity, and because of
that you will also have some of its collective energy in you. It is
important that the wounded woman in you sees you and feels your
presence.
But who are you then? You are your soul, and as your soul, directly
connected to God, the Source, the Origin. Nothing is as powerful as the
presence of your soul. The accumulation of pain and suffering in the
past may seem great, yet it cannot withstand your living light in the
present. Be filled with confidence – you can heal yourself. Bring light
into the area of your abdomen and feel the power of your inner woman:
her wisdom, her love, her inner knowing. She is allowed to be; she is
welcome on Earth, so welcome her. And give her something beautiful: a
flower, or another gift that comes to mind.
I ask you now to give this female image a rest, so we can go to the
other pole, to that of the male energy. In the past, the female energy
has been degraded, misunderstood, and this also affected men in their
being. They were often required to develop a one-sided, two-dimensional
male energy that focused on control of themselves, of life, and,
eventually, of others. They were more or less cut off from their heart,
their feelings. As a man, you had to be strong and powerful and to join
in with the existing ideas and rules.
How many men have died on the battlefields of the endless number of
wars that have taken place? These wars were often initiated by the
struggle between men over male power. But among those victims were
sensitive men, and also gay men, who could not find in themselves the
conventional male image that has existed for so long. So in men there
has been a deep wounding of their ability to love deeply, to be
authentic, vulnerable, open, which is a condition for real intimacy in
relationships. And that ability was discouraged. So men are also
victims of this painful history, which is all about control and ruling.
But from where does this need originate? It comes from fear, from
lack of love. It became a runaway male energy that lost connection to
the One. Fear has terrorized both sexes. But in this day and age
something will change. There is a desire in both men and women for
authenticity in relationships, for deep connection.
I ask you to now connect with the male energy within yourself and to
look in your heart to see if you can find a wounded man, or boy, who
reflects your own male energy. That man became closed off in the area
of the heart. What applies here to women is that it was increasingly
difficult to accept their own male energy, because they associated this
energy with a patronizing, misogynistic energy.
But know that the male energy in its true form is just as loving as
the female energy. Specifically, as a woman, the true male energy can
give you strength. Therefore, it is not only important for men, but
also for women, that they heal the injured male energy in themselves.
See if you can reach out your hand to your own male energy and look
directly into his eyes.
At this time, there is developing in the hearts of many people an
increasing sensitivity to the suffering you see around you in the
world. There is also a desire for a connection with yourself that is
deeper than before, and a longing for authentic relationships with
others. Precisely here, in the realization of that desire, do you meet
up with the wounded man and the wounded woman within yourself. It is in
relationships, especially, that this woundedness can lead to
misunderstandings.
It is important for you to realize that you, each one of you, carry
within yourself a source of abundance. You possess both male and female
energies, and you can heal both. You are complete – you are whole. Even
if you carry the burdens of the past, there is an inexhaustible force
within you: a gentle power, a courageous force. Embrace the inner man
and the inner woman in you that you have seen and take them up into
yourself. See them both as radiant figures, healed and in harmony with
each other.
As a woman, be conscious of your self-esteem and your
self-awareness. As a man, feel the warmth and the love in your heart.
You are the lightworkers of this Earth. You bring light to an old
history of pain; you bring back the light with your male and female
energies. Be gentle with yourself; take time to heal your wounds.
Experience that you can do this from your divine source. When you have
a taste of that abundance within yourself, all your relationships
become easier, smoother, and more loving.
I greet you all from deep within my heart. Thank you so much for
your presence.
© Pamela Kribbe
Translation by Maria Baes and Frank Tehan
http://www.jeshua.net/home/home17.htm
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